Hello guys. I just got a hair cut and I don't like it. I look like shit and it makes me wanna kill myself because it looks really bad on me and it doesn't matches my face at all. There is any ways to speed up the process of hair growth so I can leave it as I had before? Google is not helping because now the internet is full of SEO shit and first results are always trash. So I want to get some real experiences from people regarding this issue.
>>31127947Wear a cap or a hat. That's all you can do without exacerbating the situation
>>31127947Biotin supposedly helps your hair grow faster. I took it for a bit while I was growing mine out. The issue for me is I started breaking out. Maybe one zit every month. I stopped taking it and my breakouts stopped.
>>31127947Honest to god dude you might just have to rock a hat or buzz it and just let it recuperate.>>31128836Really bad idea>>31133236I think it's because those hair growth things are usually blended with oils and stuff to promote hair root health or something.
>>31127947>I just got a hair cut and I don't like it. I look like shit and it makes me wanna kill myself because it looks really badJust zoomer things
>>31133236Seconding biotin. Honest to god just take megafood’s women’s multivitamin for a bit. It will make your hair and nails grow like crazy.
Why do women prefer older men?
>>>/pol/Fuck off
>>31136942>Why do women prefer older men?>emotionally mature>less impulsive >financially stable >more experienced>serves as a father figure
>>31136942They do? I'm still looking for a woman 1/3 my age.
>>31136970>t. 36 year old pedo
How have the Chads you've known in elementary school or even from highschool turned out?I've had the coolest friend back then but now I don't even know where he lives or anything else about him, for that matter.Thanks
>>31134271idk man he has a solid job at some office doing tech stuff, decent car, apartment in pretty nice part of town, still goes to gym regularly, still fit, has a girlfriend he's been with for quite some time now, seems to be doing alright mentally when I talk to him.Seems pretty good to me.
I've been to five different schools and I never even once met a Chad. One of my high school classmates seems to have become one in his twenties, though. He was kind of an airhead, inconsiderate, annoying, vapid before. I met him again a couple of years ago after not having seen him for ages - he spoke clearly and decisively, knew when to speak, how to speak. He carried himself like a man of substance. Seemed to have become more intelligent and deep. Additionally, he became super tall lol, was kind of muscular too and had a couple of tasteful tattoos. His fashion was good. AFAIK he's working a great job in tech. It really left an impression on me how much he had improved. I think he'd probably pass for a Chad now, certainly looks and acts like one.
>>31128256>Chad has always been a bro, never a bully.It's because they're afraid of getting punched in the face
>>31127913Most of the kids who were mean to me in school are fat tradies with mid girlfriends now. They don’t seem miserable or anything but you can tell their best days are behind them. The actual Chads (i.e. the mr. perfects that everyone liked) are also mostly tradies or personal trainers but not fat and have good looking girlfriends.One kid I was friends with later started bullying me in school - it went beyond male banter that I was too autistic to understand, it was just mean. He messaged me on Facebook yearsa after to apologize to me. People change a lot after high school. The biggest losers I’ve ever known have just refused to move on from that time in their lives - whether because they loved it or hated it. Just don’t be like that, and you’ll have nothing to worry about.
>>31128216>>31128256Most of the kids at my school who complained about bullies just hated other kids and didn’t know how to relate to them. They brought it on themselves, in other words. Contrary to the Hollywood stereotype (which is mostly an expression of bitter chosen Jews alienated from society for the same reason), people who are good looking, physically fit, and well-liked are usually the nicest - what do they have to complain about? Why would they want to be mean? There’s plenty of opportunity for them everywhere, and they don’t guard it jealously.
What is dating a woman with BPD like?
>>31136578Highest highs, lowest lows. Nothing inbetween. Save yourself.
>>31136578Don't do it
I have bpd. If she’s not in treatment, over 30 and medicated, it’s not worth it and a pain in the ass.
>>31136968Are you a guy?
>>31136969No I’m a woman
How do I cope with my brother molesting me?
>>31134771Post your bussy. We’ll judge if it was acceptable.
>>31134771I think you’ll need to stop being a pussy. Molestation isn’t bad at all. Really be honest with yourself and ask why you feel like shit, you will notice you feel like shit because society deems it as something that you should be traumatized about. Nothing more, nothing less.>t. Got molested too in my childhood
Therapy. Specifically someone that specializes in or offers some sort of help for sexual trauma.
>>31136350Therapists are a fucking meme and just pretend to listen to you for a quick buck.
>>31134771Cutting contact is a good start. I found that I couldn’t really even process what happened until I stopped speaking to my abuser. This might be more difficult for you, but as little contact as you can. I also had good luck with EMDR. It’s like every year since then I’ve moved on more and more. Honestly didn’t think I could ever be a normal person and really struggled to function daily. I feel happy every day when before I don’t think I ever really experienced it. Shame is a terrible thing.Good luck forever. I really hope you find what works for you. It is completely worth fighting for your own peace of mind, self worth, or whatever helps.
25 y/o and been fighting depression for a few years now. I have a degree and graduated from university but still feel so far behind in everything compared to others my age. I want to travel and explore the world more than anything. I sometimes feel like a teenager in an adult's body. I look at instagram and see people my age, some younger, flexibg abou their well paid jobs or travels abroad. I really want to travel but you need good money to do so. I never travelled abroad much as a kid since my family come from poverty. How the hell do peopld in their 20's get the money to travel all the time?? is it rich parents? God there is so much I want to do but I feel like a passenger in my own car, other people are reflectong on their life so far while I'm still waiting for life to start. Thanks for taking the time to read. Does anyone else ever feel this way?
>>31135557>How the hell do peopld in their 20's get the money to travel all the time??rich parents
>>31135557>flexibg abou*flexing aboutI also want to add that I sometimes do get teased for my lack of travel experience, like people just find it so hard to believe that I came from a poor family
>>31135562To add on to this, the only time I traveled during my 20s was to the UK and France on business trips>>31135576Do you live in Europe? This seems more like a European thing, it's a lot easier to travel to other countries given the close proximity of other countries. It's not uncommon for Americans to never leave the country.
>>31135592>Do you live in Europe? yeah, I've been to different countries within europe but never ventured beyond. I'll always see people my age on instagram showing off their trips to like Malaysia or something and being like "such a lifechanging journey!".
>>31135557>fomo and travel life trapRetards like you will never learn
Been using this girl for sex and she keeps on freaking out that I'm sleeping with "5 girls a week". I keep telling her no I'm not, I don't have the time and energy but I'm also telling her that I'm not obligated to sleep with her exclusively (which I would think should excuse me from her freaking out on me every other time I see her). She's also mad that I only call her like once a month (I'm genuinely busy with school) and I prefer staying in with beer and pizza to going out.I feel like a piece of shit but I don't find her company intrinsically rewarding, I just like the sex. I'm trying to tell her to leave me if it's too painful but she keeps apologizing after every time she freaks outWhat do?
>>31135937>feel like I'm giving her every chance to stand up for her wantscmon man dont put her in the position where she has to "stand up" to you. if you know what youre doing is bad then end it. literally any reason you tell her is better than stringing her along like this but best if you dont give a real reason if you cant do that decently. just "its not working out im sorry" as politely as you can
>>31136131>>31136200Women aren't expected to do anything holy fucking shit. This shit is the reason I watch hentai
>>31136488Dude I don't even expect people to tie their shoelaces right, men or women. I am saying this because I have mentally ill women in my own life who'd get fucked up really badly by this kind of situation. Believe it or not, lots of folks are crazy and have fragile psyches.
>>31136488The replies in this thread would be quite different if it was OP in her position.
>>31133404>When I'm enjoying the misery of lifeCorrected it for you
I've been isolated since 2020 basically. Pandemic wiped out everything at first, now I just don't get along with anyone. Uni's full of trannies and DEI admits and I'm a minority (school's 10% white). Asians/Blacks/Hispanics hate me for existing so I can't approach them (tried multiple times, got along fine during high school, doesn't work at uni). All other whites are either Redditor types or LGBT. Social life has consisted of lurking on /pol/ and Twitter for about 18 months. Most advice boils down to "join a club" but they're full of middle-aged wine moms and the same groups that I just described. I have 1500 natural test levels and I come off as uptight/intense to everyone which also makes it hard to get along with the types that you normally find at modern universities. Just needed to vent. I apologize for the rant
>>31136913 Lol yeah West Coast here. It's a fucking nightmare. I actually tried to transfer last year but I got rejected from every university (most likely due to DEI again, since I have a 4.0 in a STEM major, and none of the applications were for selective schools.) So I'm a hostage for another year until I get the degree
>>31136919>the world
>>31136947 You're right. I was mainly just responding to your 1st point so that's my fault
>>31136947>that's my fault? nono its ok nobody is at any fault lol
>>31136947 I appreciate the advice though
>met this girl online a year ago>we live in completely different states >we've talked / called every single day since then >realize last week ago on our anniversary of meeting that we won't likely ever actual meet up in person because she's still in college for 3 years and I'm about to start working full-time in a different state>we just "broke" up tonight >we both deleted all the photos we sent of each other >she's deleting her account so she isn't tempted to text me Holy fuck this hurts so fucking bad, seeing / hearing her cry broke me in half.Who will text me good morning / good night?Who will send me funny little messages?Who will call me her little nickname she gave me?God this hurts so much, what the fuck can I doI'm crying
LOL! Come on man. That was online shit, like a social video game you both were playingYou gotta make things happen in real life
>>31136936You have no idea, this girl was perfect for me. Trust me, I've talked to girls in person and they were fine, but nothing like this girl. She was amazing, it hurts me in the heart just thinking about it.
>>31136939>>31136928This hurts so fucking much. We said goodnight to each other for the last time.
>>31136928How much of a sperg do you have to be to not be able to spend $200 on a domestic flight ticket to visit her for a weekend? Holy shit dude. I've had a married woman I talked with a while visit me 3x from another country for 3-7 days at a time and you're telling me you can't just visit the supposed love of your life in another state for a day or 2?
>>31136950We both agreed that doing that would just prolong the inevitable. Because after the three years she would try to get into medical school and that wasn't guaranteed that'd it be in my state.
>What is /htgwg/?How to Get Women General is by men, for men, about women, so bring all of your questions about getting and dealing with women here. Some anons on this site actually get laid, and some of those even want to help. If you're trying to meet and date women, then this is the place to ask questions, seek advice, and share experiences. We know how hard it can be. We got you bro.>What is /htgwg/ not?These threads are NOT for whining, moping, incels, volcels, MGTOW, hopelessness, or demoralization. We're all aware that meeting and dating women is hard these days, and even harder for some, but /htgwg/ is for men trying to overcome the challenges. IGNORE the posters who complain, who have given up, or who insist that there's nothing they can do. This site has other boards and threads that they can fuck off to.BE SMART: Spot the bait, don't reply, and DON'T WASTE TIME ARGUING WITH THEM!>How to ask for adviceContext is important: be more specific than "This girl ghosted me, why?" We can't help if we don't know the situation, so try to provide as much (useful) info as possible ("I was at the bar, this chick was checking me out..."). What's your relationship with the girl? How long have you known her? Any conversation screenshots? Etc...Don't forget to ask an actual question.>Books and Resources"Models": https://ufile.io/f/jrw9j (expired?)"No More Mr Niceguy": https://libgen.li/edition.php?id=143167290"Mystery Method": https://pastebin.com/cMHcY4dc (old pastebin)Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Is social media a requirement to get a gf?
>>31136755only if you want a gf that cares about social media
>>31128745true sligma
>>31136397>because she would kept pushing uncomfortable topicsLike?
I guess I fucked up again somehow. Met a nice girl on a dating app, same interests, same kinda career prospects, met up for lunch, walk in the park and saw a movie. It was great, had a great time, she messaged me first after saying she was super nervous and wanted to do it again. We talk for a week for all the things we're going to do on dates together, she wants to take me to a lavender farm, etc. Next weekend rolls around, she cancels, not feeling well. Schedule again for the next week. Midway through the week she messages me and says that I'm wonderful but she's not ready for dating right now.I live in such a remote spot of the country (northern Maine) that I only get one match a year or so across all dating apps, and blowing it again to "its not you, its me" is so utterly demoralizing. I had another failure to launch last year with a girl, 5 dates in, slept over at my house, but she said she just wanted to stay friends (with benefits) and I wanted a relationship, so that ended too. No advice to get I guess, I just need to rant somewhere.
>be me, 14>be deceptively easy to influence>get groomed by an older female>have an e-gf for a few months>get told you're too clingy>get ghosted regularly and be told you're a chore>spend nights crying and shaking>get cheated on with a fucking twink>be full of it after some time>ghost her>she gets angry>get messaged constantly after with her apologizing>have your name spammed in dms for 20minutes straight>ignore it>get an self-pitying apology message over 6000 characters longComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>31134183>>31134205Well idk. What do you want? Good lay or something serious? Sounds like she wants to fulfill a fetish for younger men and was scared before cause you were underaged. She'll dump you after sex.
>>31134578>and you want to go back now even though you know better? Really?I don't think so, I'm just wondering if I should write back for the sakes of catching up. I mean shit went down but it was a long time ago. Shouldn't I forgive by now? Not like anyone else cares what I've been up to the last few years.>>31134648>What do you want? Good lay or something serious?I forgot to mention that she lives far away enough for the possibility of sex to not really existI just think talking a little could be fun, I don't have anyone outside of family who has been willing to have me around for that long.>a fetish for younger menwell, I like older women, so that doesn't matter much. Besides I doubt there are many women like that. Not like that matters in this context>She'll dump you after sexIf that was geographically possible, that would very well be the case
>>31134797>I don't think so, I'm just wondering if I should write back for the sakes of catching up. I mean shit went down but it was a long time ago. Shouldn't I forgive by now? Not like anyone else cares what I've been up to the last few years.If you feel like it, sure, why not talk to her. Just make sure you don't get pulled into any stupid shenanigans.
>>31134135anytime i see niggas worrying about girls im filled with disgust like, this is what you let trouble you? out of all the problems in the world that could weigh down on your conscience this is the one?
>>31134135easy. now that your old enough and see trough everyhing, you should definetly fuck her.
should I cut my hair? Sometimes I feel like I look like a clown but I'm holding out for a cool girl who likes the look
My hair goes down to the small of my back. I haven't cut it in 8 years. Not even trims or whatever to get rid of "split ends" which allegedly is my hair is so frizzy. But I don't want to cut it because it's the only thing about my appearance that anyone complements.
but on a bad day its more like this>>31135855didn't ask
>>31135855Nice. And my hair needs to be frizzy with "split ends" or else it'd have no body. The body is that it's got tons of small knots tying it into bigger strands than it really is.OP you should grow out your facial hair with it. The only support group i know of for long hair online is fierceflow on reddit. But that means you'd have to go to reddit which might not be worth it
>>31135956I feel less socially potent with a beard
>>31135769dont do it if you like your hair, dont doubt it, just own it. Perhaps go to the gym to get ripped so it fits even better.
What did he do wrong?
bad aim
>>31135079>What did he do wrong?I have no idea why people venerate him when his only achievement is making being a virgin is synonymous with being a mass shooter and turning incel into a dirty word.
>>31135079genuinely put his faith in The Secret instead of staying on that grindwouldn't stop resubbing to WOWhung out with people he hated and immediately came home to bitch about them in his journal instead of being directincredibly feminine tendencies
>>31135079Didn't ask his father for romantic advice.
obsessed over designer brands and lottery tickets as his path to pussyending up killing more Asian males than he did blonde Stacies
How do you become charming?
>>31133294chatgpt gets it from me, not the other way around.
Bump
by working on yourseldf. you shouldnt make it so nobody can like but like yourself in a way that makes you others like yourself
>>31131873Mostly practice.
april?
A close friend of mine spoke to my girlfriend in private and tried to get her to break up with me (she told me about this). My friend told her that since I only make around 50k a year, she should leave me and go for someone who makes more money. He isn't interested in her himself, it was just general advice. Would it be an overreaction to stop being friends with him?
>>31136647No
>>31136647>"friend" of mine spoke to my girlfriend in private and tried to get her to break up with meYou are a spineless faggot if you don't do something about his.
>>31136647Assuming that your gf is actually telling the truth, yes, that's something worth parting ways over, forever.
>>31136647Perhaps it may be good to endeavor in a proper investigation. To be able to hear your close friend's side may clear up a few inconveniences.In wild chance, it is not improbable that your close friend may have uncovered something sinister or worse, and having done so may or may not have struck a bad cord with your partner.It is best to be absolitely certain, you may or may not be burning a bridge to an innocent man, or someone who is more convenient removed.
>>31136647Get this in your mind. He is not your friend. And this is the proof. What a rat faggot bastard. >>31136744>You are a spineless faggot if you don't do something about his.that you even still call him a friend?! 0.o
